Confidence gives us the freedom to make mistakes and cope with failure without making ourselves unworthy. If we have a sense of confidence, could indirectly increase the confidence of others as well.
Besides, most people are reluctant to return something that was thrown by someone who is nervous, fumbling and overly regret had done. On the other hand, you may quickly influenced by someone who speaks clearly, the more priority to a clear mind, who answered the question with certainty, and are always ready and not ashamed to admit if he did not know about a thing.
So how much does your Confidence level if it can be assessed with a scale of 1-10? Are you including having low self confidence? there is good news for you, it taste Confidence can be explored and developed.
Let us begin the process of building a sense of Confidence. Please note there is no instant solution for that. But as the saying goes, "Practice make a man perfect." So you have to do is to try and implement the following tips in daily life.
1. Know your discomfort
We all have a sense of discomfort. Could arise because of acne on your face, always regretted, not comfortable at your friends. Provide a name on something that can make you feel worthless, ashamed, or low to help fight these things. You can write your thoughts on a piece of paper and this can make you feel lighter and happier. Remember no one is perfect. The people next to you may also have a lot of the same sense of discomfort with you. If by writing your problem is not enough help, you can talk about it with your close friends or someone you love. Divide your mind will help ease the burden that you own.
2. Recognize your success
It does not matter how much discomfort you feel, God has blessed among us handle links by a certain talent. Find something you are skilled and good at it and focus to develop it. Inferiority is a state of mind to declare yourself as a victim. do not let yourself be a victim.
3. Be thankful for what you have
time to prove the root of feelings of discomfort and not always feeling confident is not enough for the ownership thing, whether it's emotional confession, luck, money, etc.. By recognizing and appreciating what we have, you can fight the feeling incomplete and unfulfilled. Find peace within yourself will raise your confidence.
4. Always think positive
Avoid getting a sense of pity and sympathy from others. Do not ever make others have a low sense to you, they can feel sepert it only with your consent. If you continue to hate and degrading yourself, people will do and judge you like that. You have to speak positively about yourself, about your future, and about the progress anda.Jangan never afraid to show your strengths and qualities in others.
Although clothes do not make people more qualified, but may affect the way we think of ourselves. When we do not look good, then you also do not feel good. and this can change the way you carry yourself and interact with others. This does not mean you have to provide a lot of money for clothes shopping. Instead of buying many cheap clothes, better buy some clothes with high quality. In the long term will also save on expenses, because the clothes are better and slightly more expensive will be stronger than the ugly clothes at a cheap price.
6. Walking quickly
Gait was talking a lot about your personality. whether slow? like fatigue? painful? or energetic? people with good self-esteem will go faster. They have places to go, people to be met, important work to be done. You can improve your road pace. Walking 25% faster than before will be able to make you look and feel more important.
7. Give compliments to others
When thinking negatively about ourselves, sometimes we also do the same to others in the form of insults and gossip. Avoid gossiping which can pierce yourself and try to give praise to the people around you. In the process, you will be loved and to build self-confidence. By looking at the best side of someone else, indirectly bringing the best thing to myself.
8. Sitting on the front bench
The people 'back flow' may be able to have fun at school or in college at the time sitting in the back, but it's not going to give encouragement to build self-confidence. Never be afraid to be noticed. By deciding to sit in the front row, you can eliminate the fear that is not justified as noted and can build your confidence.
9. Speak and Smile
Research shows many people are afraid to speak or ask the group discussion or public events. They fear others will be judged because speak something silly. In fact, the average person more accepting than we imagine. In fact most people have the exact same fear. By trying to talk at least once in each discussion group, you will become a good speaker, more confident about your mind, and will be recognized as a leader by your peers. Also, do not forget to always smile, try to smile as often as possible. People always love a face full of smiles. People will always be welcome if contact with you. Always smiling face will always receive the warmth and affection. Good reception from others would increase our confidence.
A healthy mind comes from the body / healthy physically as well. If you are in fit condition, you will have a positive energy. If you do not fit, you will feel unattractive. This will lead to demoralization. A little discipline in your life can help a lot in achieving your confidence is higher.